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I’m pretty good at managing my POTS after four years, but sometimes it still gets me.

Nov 18 •

As Much Sweetness As I Can Decently Manage

I am so good at feeling guilty.

Oct 10 •

A friend took us to The Met while it was closed so we could experience all of the art without the COVID.

Sep 26 •

Let's start with the end of the world, why don't we? Get it over with and move on to more interesting things.

Sep 5 •

How “Bad Girls” Made a Good Girl Gay

Fandom has always been saving gay lives.

Aug 28 •

The Freedom to Fail

It feels weirdly great to not be good at something.

Aug 5 •

Ruptured Pipe Yikes

It's never a good feeling to be covered in mysterious liquid.

Jul 28 •

The Fury of Accountability

Ellen DeGeneres is back and she is freaking livid!

Jul 12 •

10 Lessons I've Learned Living With Long Covid

It's been over four years since I got sick. I've grown so much from it.

Jun 28 •

Thank you. My friends, truly: Thank you.

Jun 11 •

Lesbian Dad, Butch Body

"Butch" isn’t just a masculine aesthetic. It's an energy. It's a temperament. It's a demeanor. It's a thing you just know, and the best feeling in the…

Jun 10 •

Best Friend Brain

Several years ago, when I was in the middle of getting my cervical stenosis diagnosis, my neurosurgeon accidentally showed me my brain.

Jun 7 •

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